Inside: Learn how to make your home cozy on a small budget. It’s about personal details and little things most people don’t think of at first. Your decor skills don’t matter!
What we are really going for here is the feeling of safety that some homes give you. Most of these are rooted in basic human instinct. We are looking for a place safe from predators where we can relax. Lizard brain meets interior decor.
Let’s explore how to get this in your home without just filling it up with fuzzy blankets.
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1. Fire
Besides the physical warmth it provides, it is like having a companion in the room. The glow, flame, and dry heat of a fire just can’t be beat. You know how when you are lonely, sometimes the TV helps that dead feeling in the room? Fire is like that but better.
Wood burning is the coziest, but gas is good too if that’s what you have. Having baskets of newspaper and kindling sticks nearby adds to the appeal. After having a wood burning fireplace in my house that heats the whole home, I will never buy a house without one or the ability to add one. It just wouldn’t feel like a home to me without it.
If you absolutely can’t have a fire, candles are a good alternative. I’ve seen candle holders that fill a fireplace and people wrapping artificial logs with fairy lights for a pretty glow. Of course they don’t provide any physical warmth, which is important too, but they do create coziness in your home.
2. Color
Color, or at least warm neutrals, go a long way towards creating coziness in your home.
I love gray and white just as much as the next girl, and my house is largely done in that too. But when you also have accessories that are also gray and white, the whole effect can be very cold. This is especially pronounced in the winter, or in rooms without very much sunlight.
Painting the walls has the biggest effect. I love picking from Benjamin Moore historical collection to avoid a color that is too crazy-colorful.
3. Homemade Food
The food itself is cozy, but so it the act of creating it.
The kitchen is the heart of the home, and when it’s isn’t used it doesn’t beat. Someone needs to be in there much of the day preparing things, doing dishes, polishing the counters, sweeping the floor. Baking bread is especially good at creating kitchen coziness, it can’t be rushed and only requires a few minutes of work at a time. Make sure you have a pretty bowl and tea towel for rising dough.
I don’t mean you have to be a kitchen servant, constantly chained to it, but if there is always some type of kitchen project going on, it goes a long way toward making your home cozy. When you think of “grandmas cozy cottage” is she sitting around watching TV? No. How about at the kitchen table, listening to the radio, shelling peas? There’s just something about the kitchen that gives a house it’s soul. Food preparation lures people in and gives the kitchen life.
4. Beautiful Things With a Purpose
If the things you buy are both useful and beautiful, your home will be cozy and inviting without even trying. When you see charming English country homes that look cozy, part of the appeal is the function of each item. There is no “decor”. But there are beautiful old books, clocks, and lamps.
To get a similar look, try to make everything in your house, from your laundry basket to your snow boots to your soap, look beautiful to you. The easiest rule to follow is to buy as little plastic as possible. It usually looks ugly and cluttered, and it ages poorly.
5. Living Things
Obviously, an empty house is not going to help in coziness department. Every house needs something alive.
Plants, pets, and other people make a house feel alive because they are alive. In my opinion, a dog is the absolute best at this. I have never had one, but I notice a huge difference in the feel of a house when there is a dog around vs. when there is not.
6. Add Layers and Textures
I made fun of fuzzy blankets earlier, but there is something to them. A cold, hard sheet of glass? Not cozy.
But don’t go overboard or start buying pillows and throws just because! First, make sure they really serve a function.
7. Personal Items and Things With a Story
A cozy home reflects your unique personality. Display items that hold special meaning or simply make you happy. There are so many possibilities here, most of them free.
- Framed photos (casual snapshots work too!)
- Letters or cards received from loved ones
- Children’s artwork
- Souvenirs from trips: magnets, postcards, small sculptures
- Collected natural items: shells, driftwood, interesting rocks
These personal touches give your home character and make it feel warm and inviting.
8. Signs of Activity
A cozy home is a place where life happens. Subtly showcase those moments of activity that breathe warmth into your space. A guitar propped on its stand suggests music fills the air at times, while a half-finished knitting project on the couch hints at cozy evenings spent creating. A well-loved book left open on the nightstand tells a story of relaxing before bed.
More ideas
- A half-completed jigsaw puzzle on a table.
- A set of paints and brushes beside an unfinished canvas
- A basket of yarn with a crochet hook peeking out
9. Make the Most of Light and Shadow
True coziness embraces the natural rhythms of day and night. Optimize your space to both enhance the beauty of daylight and craft an intimate haven as darkness falls.
Chasing Sunlight: Observe how sunlight enters your home throughout the day. Arrange furniture to make the most of warm, natural light. Use light-colored curtains or blinds to diffuse direct sun if it becomes harsh but avoid heavy drapes that block the light entirely. Mirrors strategically placed can reflect sunlight into dim corners.
Embracing the Dark: Evening needs a different routine. Close curtains, add a fireplace or candles become the focal point. Supplement with lamps placed for reading.
Consider this the beginning of your cozy home journey. As seasons change and life evolves, so will your home.