By skyforbes 
If you’re an overwhelmed overthinker who can’t seem to actually stop thinking and start doing, this post is for you! As part of setting powerful goals, you need to create a starter plan that will help you take action. This post will show you how…
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Why It’s So Difficult To Accomplish Goals As An Overthinker
Most people fall into one of these two camps:
“I love setting goals and crushing them faster than expected.”
-or-
“I’m afraid to set goals. By the time I research and then think through every possible step and outcome, it always seems like I’ve missed the best opportunities.”
If you’re in the second group, then I’m right there with you! Deciding on goals and actually accomplishing anything is an everyday struggle for overthinkers, one that I know all too well.
The reality is that you’re NEVER going to be as productive as you THINK you should be or it SEEMS like everyone else is.
What you need to realize is — that’s okay!
You just need to work differently and set expectations for yourself that are NOT based on what you BELIEVE everyone else is doing.
Sometimes productivity articles from super-accomplished people can be a little depressing. While we rejoice in the fact that there are people who are out there “crushing it,” we overthinkers feel like we will never catch up.
If you are going through the same thing, keep reading… I’ve got some suggestions to help!
I’m going to throw myself out there as an example. There are SO MANY things I think I should be working toward all.the.time. In addition to all of the regular life stuff that needs to be done, I love blogging and writing and decluttering and home DIY projects and reading and….
You get the idea? But, I had to face the fact that trying to do all of those things at the same time meant I wasn’t getting anywhere. I simply cannot have multiple goals at.the.same.time.
This is what I’m doing now, and I hope you can find takeaways to make this goal setting starter plan work for you…
How to Start Setting Realistic Goals as an Overthinker
Your preliminary work will be to fill out a dreams and goals worksheet.
(Click here to have the printable worksheet sent to your inbox.)
This will get your imagination going and help you start seeing possibilities for what amazing things you COULD make happen in your life.
Then, do a brain dump of all.the.things. in your head.
This list will be long, and it should include vague future goals as well as all of the little tasks you keep putting off.
When you’re done, move the little tasks to a separate list. Block time daily or weekly to knock out a few of these at a time, but don’t let them distract you right now. If you leave them on your “big things” list, they will take your focus off your main goal.
Once the little things are off your list, forget about them until your scheduled time block.
Tip: DON’T divide your “big things” list into different priorities like professional, personal, health, home, family, etc. For overthinkers, that’s a recipe for overwhelm, indecision, and failure.
Next, take 30 seconds to force yourself to choose the most important goal or task from your “big things” list.
How do you know what’s most important? Simply put, it’s the thing that bothers you all the time — the goal or task that your mind dwells on no matter what else you are doing. This is THE ONE THING you will work on.
I know, I know, it feels like you should be doing a little something in every area.
It’s tempting to make a priority goal for each section of your life. But if you do that, you’re going to be right back where you started — overwhelmed and unable to make a decision or get anything done.
Your Action Starter Plan
Now, break your ONE goal into actionable steps that you want to accomplish in the next two weeks. Two weeks is an optimal amount of time for most overthinkers to actually make good progress on a goal. It’s long enough to develop momentum and motivation and short enough to force us to really get moving.
You’re not writing a how-to volume here. Just spend 10 minutes to work out the basics. You can always break it down more as you’re working, such as when you’re doing daily planning.
Don’t get caught up in the “first I need to…” procrastinating actions that will push the actual beginning of working toward your ONE THING off for hours, days, or weeks.
Allowing yourself to do all of those little things first means you will NEVER succeed at what you REALLY want to do.
Ready to take action on your own goals? Grab The Goal Journey Annual Goal Planner — This printable goal planner is designed to streamline your goal-setting process, allowing you to focus on one goal at a time and adapt as life evolves. Get the extra stuff out of your head, let go of the regrets and ‘should-dos,’ and start accomplishing the goals that really matter to YOU.
Action Steps for Working Toward Your Goal
To give yourself the best chance of success, be sure to implement my 5 vital action starters for goals. Then, start doing this…
Every day, set a schedule of tasks with time limits. Using a simple daily planner or a printable daily planner sheet can help you visualize the task/time relationship and keep track of your progress.
Choose the ONE TOP TASK and make that your focus for the day. Draw a box around that task with your favorite colored pen or marker — it should be the ONLY thing you notice when you glance at that paper.
I know you think you need to do all 19 things on your list, but it’s not going to happen in one day. You know this. I know this. We don’t like to admit it, but it’s the truth.
However, if you get that ONE TOP TASK done, you will be incredibly motivated to knock out the next task.
Believe me, you CAN surprise yourself by what you can do in a day, but don’t put that kind of pressure on yourself to start with. Set a time limit for your task. Then double it. Just trust me on this.
(Eventually I would love to write a post about how to get things done in the same amount of time as “regular” people, but, well… I have to figure out how to DO that. For now, it’s all about getting SOMETHING done.)
Now I just worry about ONE FOCUS.
Tips to NOT Get Stuck, Overwhelmed, or Distracted
There are several things you’ll want to remember — and DO — in order to keep yourself on track and moving forward.
1. Limit your information intake
If you’re in the planning stage for a project, blog post, whatever… don’t allow yourself to get stuck.
Stop reading books and blog posts about how to do things related to your goal. Limit your research to something reasonable — say 1-2 SHORT books and 3 articles. That’s enough. You really will have the information you need to move on.
2. Scale down the advice you read
For example, new bloggers are usually told to be very active on at least three social media platforms.
I tried that for months and was getting burned out. I realized that even with scheduling programs, I can’t keep up with that and I do not want to hire someone to do it for me. I made the decision to concentrate on only one thing — Pinterest — and let the other platforms go for now. (By the way, would you believe my blog traffic went up after doing that?!)
3. Don’t split your focus
As you get more comfortable with your daily capabilities and accomplishments, don’t get distracted by multiple other goals.
Just because you’re making progress working toward the one “big thing” doesn’t mean you can start adding various tasks related to all of your other goals. It’s not going to work.
If you think of something new that you “need” to do, add it to your master list. For a while it may seem like your list just keeps growing, but you really will start working through the list. Some things will also naturally become unimportant or fall off the list completely. Don’t feel bad about that.
4. Work intensely for 2 weeks
You’ll want to pause and evaluate your progress about every two weeks. Personally, that’s about how long I can maintain focus and strong motivation to accomplish the most I possibly can on one goal.
At this point, you can decide to do another 2-week focus session on the same goal or move on to something different.
Tips for Calling Your ‘Big Thing’ Goal DONE
It may have taken you longer than you wanted (doesn’t it always?), but eventually you will be on the brink of accomplishing your goal. This is where things get exciting and scary.
Don’t let yourself overthink! Don’t get scared, pull back, and decide you need to do more research or tweaking.
You can always fix the little things later. Give your “big thing” time to work (whatever it is — a new blog, a book, a product, a new family routine or cleaning schedule…) and don’t constantly monitor the progress every.second.of.the.day. Once a day or once a week is enough!
Now it’s time to move on to your next goal/project!
More Reading for Goal and Action Motivation
The Ultimate Getting Your Life Together Checklist
5 Ways Overwhelmed Overthinkers Can Beat Procrastination
One Simple Tip to Break the Procrastination Habit – Our Heritage of Health
How to Develop Your Finishing Instinct: The Magic Final Step to Real Productivity
5 Time Management Tips to Achieve Your Dream Life – Mom’s Small Victories
You CAN be successful at setting goals and crushing them. Just because it may take you longer doesn’t mean it won’t happen. Focus on ONE GOAL and don’t give up!
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