By skyforbes Basically, my fiance and I JUST moved into a new apartment today, and have not had time to go grocery shopping. Also, sadly enough for me, my purse was stolen while I was in a graduate class yesterday evening so I currently do not have access to my funds.
I paid for the deposit as well as next month’s rent for the apartment, and also have been responsible for purchasing the living room furniture. My fiancé bought our bedroom furniture. Well, this evening, he asked what we should have for dinner and I suggested a local Chinese takeout spot as it is cheap and quick. He responded with “Okay, go get it.” to which I asked if he was paying for it because, again, cards stolen! He said “Nope. Looks like you’ll have to find something else.” I just went and continued unpacking my closet. About 30 minutes later he told me he’d be back and quickly left the apartment. When he returned, he had gotten himself takeout from a different place and also grabbed a frozen meal from a convenience store.
I was immediately frustrated because he didn’t mention food when he left, but I didn’t say anything. Then, when he put the frozen meal away he turned and said “that’s not your dinner, it’s my lunch tomorrow.” which just caught me off guard. I got pretty upset and asked what he expected me to eat because we literally have no food in the apartment yet and I won’t have access to any type of money until I can get to my bank tomorrow. He literally just shrugged at me and then took his meal into our bedroom where he ate while unpacking.
I won’t lie, I cried, and called my best friend asking if she would please bring me snacks or something to get me through the night because the last time I ate was at 7am. My fiancé said that I was dramatic and that I’d be fine until I could go to the bank tomorrow to get cash. My feelings are so hurt because I do not understand how he could let me go hungry even for just a night. AIO?