By skyforbes I ask advice about a relationship with someone. The pattern is always the same.
Starts giving me advice in certain direction.
Some messages later, with a polished answer… I say "maybe i do this instead"?
Totally deviates from the original direction it was going and takes a new one from what ive said.
After many messages about totally different advice from the original, ends up saying "look, you shouldnt do any of this, i told you just so you would not feel bad about the situation"
I ask "then why you kept me going with X idea all the time?"
Answer is: Ok look, this is the definitive answer, you should to this and that. (again tells me to do something)
Every time it will end up saying "ok, this is the perfect and definitive answer" which is something totally different from the last time it said so.