AITA for asking my wife to please do NOT wear visible star-shaped pimple patches to a wedding ?

First things first, I (41m) love my wife (43f). I think my wife is a gorgeous woman with gorgeous skin. My wife has struggled with cystic acne her whole teenage and adult life. She's a teacher at an all-girls private high school and my wife would wear visible star-shaped pimple patches (without makeup) in class to help the students feel more comfortable. I think that's wonderful in that context. Also, I honestly think my wife looks cute wearing those pimple patches.

But thing is, our daughter (13f) is struggling with cystic acne just like her mom. My daughter, wife, and I are going to my sister's (37f) wedding. My wife wants to go wearing visible star-shaped pimples patches without makeup. My daughter has told me she doesn't want people there paying extra attention her mom's acne since they may then pay extra attention to her acne as well. Also, my sister is laid back but I think she wouldn't want one of her guests to wear very visible pimple patches.

Without bringing up our daughter's concerns since she didn't me to tell her mom this, I asked my wife to please do NOT wear very visible pimple patches to my wedding. She got upset with me and is now questioning my previous statements when I had told her that she looks cute with them. I had mentions my concerns of how my sister may feel. I thought that would be enough but it wasn't. Am I the asshole ?