37M here. I have a great career and a fiancée, but no kids. I've always had a lot of hobbies and usually rotate through which are my primary, but I'll usually keep up with gaming in the background. Lately though the number of hours of my free time I'm putting into gaming has increased massively, and I'm trying to figure out why, and if that's a good or bad thing.

On the plus side, a lot of my favourite genres/franchises have been having very successful entries like MGS Delta, Silent Hill f etc. Since probably AstroBot, I feel like there has been a top tier game for me to play every few weeks, and I recently got a Switch 2, after skipping the Switch, and so have a bunch of first party Nintendo games to catch up on. So the quality of games out there and how much I am enjoying them is a big factor.

On the flip side, various personal life stresses have been affecting me lately and I have been responding by withdrawing a bit. I find myself really only feeling good when doing 3 things: working ( love my job), sleeping and gaming. I think because all 3 are a form of escape from my own thoughts. I'll start within an hour of getting home and continue until I'm about to sleep, whereas in the past I'd just play 1-2 hours per day 2-3 days per week.

My partner is accepting of it and I game whilst next to her on the cough and we chat etc., but something about it feels a bit over the top/wrong, I can't tell if it's a healthy indulgence of a hobby or unhealthy escape from reality.

Any thoughts? Anyone been through something similar?

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