Moister Than an Oyster & Wiser Than Before: Divine Downloads & Dragonflies

This post is the juicy reflection behind Episode 10 of my podcast Sparks, Sex, and Spirituality — where spiritual downloads, tarot synchronicities, and deep sensual vibes collided in the most unexpected (and amazing) ways.

If you told me a year ago that my life’s biggest spiritual insights would happen while wearing an inappropriate t-shirt and waiting on samosas, I probably would’ve believed you.

Because here’s the thing — I’m knee-deep in my awakening, and Spirit has a way of showing up in the wildest ways.

This past week? Whew. It’s been a whirlwind of tarot readings that hit too close to home, cosmic nudges, and signs I couldn’t ignore (yes, I’m talking about the dragonfly that landed on my forehead mid-manifestation float in the lake. No shoreline in sight. You can’t make this up).

One reading in particular cracked me wide open. It spoke of twin flames, growth, divine feminine energy, and that sacred, fiery heart connection. The masculine stuck in the 3D. The feminine flying high in the skies.

Me?
I’m her. Woman of the sky.
And yes, Mr. Big is giving full-on Five of Swords energy right now. I set his heart on fire — and he, unknowingly, lit the match for mine.

And maybe, just maybe, that’s the point.

That these connections aren’t always here to complete us… but to push us to fall radically, wildly, unapologetically in love with ourselves.

To remember our fire.
To reclaim our softness.
To stop dimming our light because someone else is still stuck in the dark.

Even my yoga studio — the sacred space where I go to stretch and breathe and just be — has been echoing that message:
Be real. Be you. Let your sexy, sassy side flourish.

When the studio owner told me to wear my “Moister Than an Oyster” shirt in class because it’s a “conversation starter,” I nearly choked. But also? She was so right. That shirt is me. Fun. Flirty. A little inappropriate. A whole lot authentic.

From my daughter’s sweet moment in the crystal shop to the rose quartz pendant dipping right over my heart chakra (where it belongs), everything lately is screaming:

✨ SURRENDER. ✨

Let it be messy.
Let it be magic.
Stop chasing. Stop running.
Start feeling.

Own the desire. Own the divine feminine. Own the YOU that’s rising.

Whether it’s in a whisper from a tarot reader, a dragonfly on your head, or a photo critique from your not-quite-boyfriend who somehow sees you better than most — listen. Spirit speaks.

And here’s what I’m learning (sometimes the hard way):

💫 The journey may be wild, but it’s sacred.
💖 The signs are real — especially when you’re paying attention.
🔥 You are allowed to be sexy, spiritual, and soft — all at once.
🌊 And yes, moister than an oyster. Loud and proud.

2025 is the year of Surrender.
And we are just getting started.

🎧 Want to hear the full story — complete with all the juicy details, synchronicities, and soulful reflections?
Listen to Episode 10 of my podcast Sparks, Sex, and Spirituality —
“Moister Than an Oyster & Wiser Than Before: Divine Downloads & Dragonflies”
Available now on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you vibe with your favorite shows. 💫🔥

(Recorded Feb 20, 2025. Posted Mar 27, 2025)