By skyforbes 
OK I’m really looking for some advice from absolute strangers on this one. Me and the woman I’ve been with for last 14 years from engaged but never set a date she can never commit to a date we have three children two of them that we created one that came with the package. She hasn’t worked a full time job in about 13 years I pretty much took care of everything yet and make $1 million but we got bye we made some money I lost the money but couple companies I had. You know the good all American dream. Well recently in November of last year I got squeezed out of my company that I started with my partner I wasn’t able to work another job to the fact that if I did I would be infringing on our corporation so he had me by my balls so she had to get a job first real job and 14 years. He does the say she was not too happy about that until this day she still has not she always complains about not having enough money but never wanted to work towards putting more money into our our family when she was perfect well capable of working a job our children are plenty old enough anyways. Before I bore you with all the same bullshit that every other relationship is I recently started a company in March I knew company and is doing well but is the first year there’s some growing pains the girl is making me all around 1000 every two weeks. And I’m trying to bring in to the four. I’m on right now. I’ve basically turned into the state home mom/dad but I’m criticize at every turn I create a new company within two months of getting kicked out of my old one and it is one of the top ranking companies in the city right now but there’s just no prop at the Shell in our first year. How are bills of been paid every month she just complains it we have no money at the end of the month until we get the next paycheck but the fact that she has to spend her money and not have anything for herself she says it’s very frustrating and to the point where she feels that she has a need to be in a relationship with me because she could do it on her own financially.
Well taking a vantage of the state Medicaid for the last year she decided to change something on the insurance and buy the results of that she added her name to my name to hernia I don’t know what she did but then she made us all as one group and then I got booted off the insurance which is only planning on staying on for year to the company need enough money. But here’s the million dollar question guys we both have some health things going on and we couldn’t afford to fix the tooth here near I recently I’ve been experiencing some problems with my thyroid so I go to the doctor I spent about $180 a month just to Dr. fees and the prescriptions. Well she just got offered insurance through her work employee insurance and they do compensate your domestic partner or husband or wife knowing that I’ve been going through this issue with my thyroid in at the beginningpoint It’s a lot of test to eat so I’m putting all out of my money out of pocket for this. Now add me to her insurance would’ve been $100 extra month and at no point at all did it come that I should be added to the insurance for emergency medical reasons just in case or do you know if I have to get more treatment for this thyroid problems.
Shit no problem asking me to help her guide her through the enrollment process and then make a big deal how they’re going to be taking $50 a month out of her check and that oh my God it’s going to affect her so much and not one point was I thought of considered and her attitude very small gift almost as if making a big deal about the $54 because she was trying to act and distract from what was the ultimate idea of two partners being on the same insurance plan.
Now we split all the bills in the house we have two cars each other’s name I’ve been raising her son who is now 14 years old since he was to 2. During the whole time that she didn’t work she always up my butt about not having enough money or never home enough because she was having too much trouble with the kids and I wasn’t home enough of us working too much but if I work too much we don’t have enough money if I work too much I need a better job so I don’t have to work as much it’s loaded anyway you look at it.But you can only take it for so long, In this insurance issue has been a big problem as I brought up the idea of her going on her own insurance before the state pick me up mine and she said well why should I have to pay for is a dude how are how are you paying for it when our moneys combined. I know she’s a very selfish and Nero minded individual very narcissistic it times. But I think this one takes the fucking cake not only did she not care about my health or well-being by wanting to add me to our insurance policy with her but if there was something that were to happen and I would have to go spend my money out of my pocket saying emergency it would wake me out of money to her that’s not a concern. Man we have many many problems in a relationship album being the fact that she says she cares about me and loves me and is committed but yet her actions speak a different language like a red hot poker in butter
She didn’t do anything for my 40th birthday party in an industry that I’m in every way through something for their husband and her 40th birthday she did nothing.
And she puts it all on the fact that we had no money for any type of party are so on and so forth I just know and have throughout the 14 years I’ve been with her always made sure that if it was my last dollar or my last sock that I was going to wear I was giving it to her minutes not even that I love her it’s just the right thing to do. I really truly don’t think that I’m going to get past her inability to to do anything but make sure that everything she is done in the last two years has been everything to make sure that she is on the right path my credit card bills which I have used to keep our family afloat for last 14 years I’ve now become my problem and why should she have to incur debt that I have where she thinks her money is going towards my bills. The small fact that she doesn’t understand which is very simple math she brings into thousand dollars a month we have $4800 in bills every month bills get paid but yet somehow she doesn’t understand how that happened. The only thing she looks at his the fact that after she gets her payroll there’s really no money left over for herself. I don’t know if it’s just a complete Nero minded dumb irrational narcissistic pattern that she thought her self into or if it’s truly that she’s just a cold hearted little bitch and she’s just trying to get her self in the right position in order to move on in her life as need be.
During the time that we needed her to go get a job she decided she wanted to go back to school full-time we’re planning on buying a house at the end of the year and I told her that it be better if she got a job so we can get more money towards our down payment she thought going to school is a better option so I support it I bit my tongue when she had school working in class and it interfered with my jobs in I had up. Never wants the Chi appreciate it or it knowledge the only thing that is left from the whole time that she went to school with the fact that she is no longer able go to school because she had to get a job because I lost mine.
I brought up the idea to her the other day before this insurance thing dropped on my head about well I’m gonna go back to school and finish up my degree while I’m building my new company and making the same amount of money but I’m home all week I feel I’m going to utilize that Hometime it in and take some classes and finish my degree instead of getting a part-time job and waste my time doing something I’m not gonna enjoy. And I got a big hell no I’m not gonna work my ass off so you could not have to participate in helping out with the bills.
I just want somebody tell me to stop being a fucking moron and leave the trick this was only in a matter of three days now our relationship is very very much the same thing no matter what I do or did pour don’t do because I’m judged for future actions that have not yet happened or anything negative she could come up with.
She’s a pretty girl but she lacks Hart personality companionship communication empathy. My main concern and the whole reason I’ve been sticking around in the other held that I’ve been in as I made a promise to my children that I would not give up because it’s not about my happiness not about me feeling that I get enough love from somebody it’s me being there to watch my kids grow up on a daily basis.
I have a previous child from a previous relationship who I not in communication with anymore due to the fact of some Sirius out right in human thing is that my previous daughter and her mother dead.
She went on this whole my daughter’s got cancer campaign and took money from foundations took money from Make-A-Wish got people really thinking that she’s in on Diane so they were given everything they could to my daughter and I I I couldn’t take it no more and I I put a stop to it and because I did it you know neither one of them ever talk to me again.